I love Lestrade way too much to treat him like that, and I have some trouble with fics that have him pining for Sherlock, and Sherlock treating him like dirt. On the other hand, as much as I want to write these two together, I don't think it's possible to depict a normal kind of romance and still keep them true to character.

In my mind (my fanon)Sherlock likes Lestrade, but he's aware enough of his own faults (inconsiderate, moody, anti-social, mostly asexual - the latter not actually a fault but can be perceived as such in that context), that he won't attempt to pursue more than they currently have. On his part, Lestrade has a weak spot for Sherlock (he can't say no to the man, he's very much attracted to him, he needs him professionally). However, unlike John (and his awe and hero worship), there's only so much of Sherlock's crap he's willing to take. He's also aware that Sherlock is, fundamentally, an asshole (and a junkie), so he keeps him at arm's length.

For me it's all the better - 'normal' romance is boring, and this dynamic gives me more to work with.

Thank you for reading and for the lovely feedback!